Whilst it may sound absurd for someone to enjoy feeling miserable about themselves, there’s a reason why so many people refer to themselves as a loser, a nobody, or a failure for decades of their lives: they feel comfortable in doing so; otherwise, they wouldn’t call themselves these horrible things. Strangely enough, the reason you berate and chastise yourself is that you take comfort in doing so. The labels you assign yourself, no matter how limiting or negative they may be, give you a strong sense of self, so much so that you will oftentimes find yourself continuing to behave in a way which
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