Why Not Me?: A feeling of Millions (English)

by Anubhav Agrawal

“And you always end up paying a very heavy price for keeping people in your heart.”

“Love doesn’t provide you with benefits or losses, it just happens. No conditions and no guidelines. And it's never in control.”

“You know when you truly feel close to someone and want them to be happy always even a well-written message can tell you that the person isn’t okay. And this time it wasn’t even the message, there’s this little voice in my heart that kept screaming at me that you aren’t okay.”

Mili nigaaho se nigaahein main rok na paya khud ko. Dost khada tha mera peeche, girte girte usne sambhala tha mujh ko. Uske chehre se barasta noor mujhe usko dekhte rehne par majboor kiye ja raha tha. Wo dheeme dheeme sharmati, haule haule balkhati. Kya khubsoorti thi, kya adaa thi. Usey likhna, usey bayaan karna, uski khubsoorti ki tauheen thi maano.

The real test of friendship is when it goes through tough times, friends drift apart, but they unite back and that's the true meaning of friendship. Friendship is the real gem you earn in life and it stays with you forever. But if it leaves you hanging mid-road, then it wasn’t a true friendship.

It is not easy to maintain a long-distance relationship, but that doesn’t mean that the person you love changes with the distance. If the person is right for you no matter the distance you are separated with they will always love you and be with you. But, if they are not the ones that you think they are, the distance will ruin the relationship, no matter how strong you have built the foundation, the relationship will fall apart.

“Everyone wants love, but give it to that person who will care about your love and would appreciate your efforts in being with that person. Overdoing things would result in losing your self-respect and also the love given by you, eventually you'd be ignored by the other person.”

“If you succeed in cheating someone, don’t think that the person is a fool, realise that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.”

Never lose your self respect for someone ever in your life. Don’t beg for their love, respect or time ever. Doing this would make you lose your self respect in front of the person and they would never appreciate the efforts you put in the relationship. I told everything to my friends whatever happened and everyone, Honey, Tulya Pawni showered me with care and love. Trust me sharing things with your friends will make it easier for you to come out of the situation, at least you won’t feel alone.