“I don’t know what to do, Bop. I want to be brave, like you two, but I just—I don’t know what to do.” “It starts with the choice, just like your mom said. Here in this room, it seems to me you have a sense that you might want one of these fellas to be your family. If you want that, you can have it. But first, you have to tell them that’s what you want. Bean, you have to choose.”