Two questions about your narrative: 1. Is it closely aligned to what’s actually happening in the world? If, for example, you’re constantly worried about something happening, but it never does, it’s probably a miscalculation on your part. If you believe your work is fabulous but no one wants to interact with it, again, you might not be telling a truthful story about the world. Here’s a simple test. Ask: Do other successful people have this narrative? 2. Is it working? Is the narrative you use helping you achieve your goals? Because that’s what it’s for. If it’s getting in your way, then instead
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