You can’t always control what the Wheel of Misfortune has in store for you or when and where you’ll get hit with enemy fire, but you can control what you learn from these experiences and how you fight back. You can wallow in misery or tell tragedy to go fuck itself with the mindset David Goggins explains in his book Can’t Hurt Me. You can drop heavy ordnance on that enemy position, get up, dust yourself off, and live to fight another day. When obstacles strike (and they will), you need to identify the root cause, apply lessons learned, and move on with life.