We read Paul and the New Testament picture of church better when we read it as “we strengthen us.” Who benefits when I give to a poorer brother or sister? Us. Who benefits when I preach? Us. Who benefits when I tolerate an annoying member of the church? Us. Who benefits when you are gentle to me? Us. For Paul, this is the meaning of fellowship in the church: “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing” (1 Thess 5:11

