For the Advice Cards at Baby Showers Baby socks don’t matter, but more importantly— neither does advice. This is not a performance for your friend or your mother or the woman in line who tells you about coats. Experience will teach you two things: you are the mother and it’s okay to let them go up the slide. Nothing in this world can prepare you for this love’s suffering. For joy and loneliness. For now just remember: birds sing, babies cry, and no matter the weather, every morning is new.