Years later, I continue to learn that I can flourish and be complete with or without someone standing next to me. I am my own validation, which now feels empowering rather than isolating and unnerving. While life is not meant to be done alone, it’s important to make room and hold space for intimate moments that don’t require company and praise to press forward. Validation starting with me gave me permission to trust myself in new ways, while holding myself accountable. It is no one else’s job to make me feel whole and good—only I can do that.
