I’ve found there are usually one of three reasons I am choosing to be confused: 1.I’m people pleasing. I worry about whether or not other people will still like me if I do what I know I need to do. 2.I’ll lose face. I am worried about what other people (often strangers) will think of me if I do the right thing. 3.Fear. I fear the financial or physical consequences of doing the right thing.
