still concentrate on their one positive thing, make hundred assumptions that they are good, and we keep loving them. Similarly, when we don’t want someone in our life, no matter how good they are, our mind concentrates only on one fault of them, comes up with hundreds of assumptions that they aren’t good for us, and we leave them. That is the secret! To achieve our goal, we have to believe we can, we have to visualize, and then our mind shows us hundreds of ways to do it, despite the huge number of obstacles on the way.