We parents are spending more and more time and money on parenting, but when you look at the results, things are getting worse, not better. . . . Here’s my diagnosis. Over the past three decades, there has been a massive transfer of authority from parents to kids. Along with that transfer of authority has come a change in the valuation of kids’ opinions and preferences. In many families, what kids think and what kids like and what kids want now matters as much or more than what their parents think and like and want. . . . These well-intentioned changes have been profoundly harmful to kids.2
