Once we focus on a single positive thing, we begin to see opportunities for it everywhere. Unfortunately, the opposite is true too. If all we are looking for is something negative, we will find it, even if we have to distort the story. We modify details to match our intention. Multiple witnesses will recount the exact same event with different details based on the mindset of the viewer. A politician’s speech will be interpreted based on the listener’s attitude, not the speaker’s words or intent. We