is counter-cultural to be unwounded and to refuse to be a victim. It has somehow become socially acceptable to be wound-identified and to have an existence based on that wound. It’s a source of sympathy and too often an excuse for not becoming an adult. Wounding others is a quick way to feel better about ourselves, but recklessly selfish. We tear others down to make ourselves look better. After all, the fastest way to have the tallest building in town is to burn down all the other buildings. But acting like a terrorist is in direct opposition to our values, so once again, we lose. The goal
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