We should listen more and speak less. Even if you love your platform and want others to join you there, people will not come without a very compelling reason. That reason would be an example of someone who is living an attractive, fruitful life. Like a wise man once told me after we witnessed a heated theological debate, “No one comes to Jesus because they lost an argument.” Intolerant rage is not attracting anyone to your point of view, nor is it assisting your journey. Before people are willing to come to your school of thinking, they will need to see a compelling and beautiful life.