don’t remember what Jim said to all of my resistance. I just remember we stayed the course, and what I learned about forgiveness that day changed my life. Jim didn’t seem a bit concerned that I didn’t have the desire to forgive or that my feelings weren’t cooperating. It almost seemed like the intensity of my resistance made doing this exercise on this day more appropriate in his estimation, not less. That confused me. I certainly didn’t want to add “forgiveness failure” on top of everything else I was beating myself up about in this season.
