Based on my realistic assessment of capacity, how does this relationship threaten to hyperextend what I can realistically and even generously give? •Do I feel the freedom in this relationship to communicate what I can and cannot give without the fear of being punished or pushed away? •What are some realistic restrictions I can place on myself to reduce the access this person has to my most limited emotional or physical resources? •What time of the day is most healthy for me to interact with this person?
