Am I eager to share a helpful perspective with others facing a similar situation, hoping to help them get to a better place? •Can I look for what is good in other people? •Do I look for life lessons and collect those instead of grudges? •What hurt might my offender have suffered that would have led them to do what they did? Can I have compassion for the offender’s brokenness? •Can I be authentically kind to this person who was unkind to me, even with the boundaries I may need to draw?
