doesn’t make you a forgiveness failure. We aren’t robots. We are tenderhearted humans who feel deeply, so we can easily get hurt deeply. The sign of progress isn’t the ability never to get hurt or offended or knocked off balance emotionally. The sign of progress is to let the pain work for you instead of against you. Use it as an opportunity to let the pain drive you to the new healing habits and perspectives we’ve been discovering together in this book.
