Assess the person you have separated from and evaluate who they actually are. The truth is, that person is not who you thought they were. The person you cared about does not exist. The idea that this person was a trustworthy faithful companion is not true. You created an ideal around their framework, but they do not actually exist. They have proven they do not exist by their actions. Do not dwell on what it was, because it wasn’t. Do not dwell on what it could have been, because it couldn’t. It was a lie.