I needed it as the twenty-nine-year-old who had finally found the love of his life, staged one of the most elaborate proposals of all time, and then also found himself having cold feet for no other reason than what society was telling him would happen to him once he got married. I needed it as the thirty-one-year-old who was about to have a daughter and had no idea what to do or how to raise her because he realized that for most of his life, despite believing in equality, he had not treated women with the respect he knows they deserved,
