Perhaps you are always chasing another’s love. This may show up as insecurity with the need to prove oneself. It may show up when you are constantly and consistently putting someone else’s needs in front of your own. It shows up in the feeling that taking care of them is more important than your own self-care. Self-care is self-love. When you take time out for self-care, it is a way of showing self-love. I am not referring to activities such as manicures and massages.

