ME: One of the big questions I’ve had over the years is why did you stop when you did? Why— HIM: You know, I’ve asked myself that question a lot, and honestly I think I just chickened out. And I’m glad I did, but— ME: Why do you think that is? Because you hadn’t been with a girl prior? HIM: No, I mean—I think it was the kind of thing where I knew I shouldn’t be doing it. ME: And so there was a line— HIM: That was apparently as far as I was willing to transgress on that particular night.