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Ozan Varol
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November 9 - November 24, 2021
We tend to see ourselves at the center of everything. But from the vantage of outer space, the Earth is “a lonely speck in the great enveloping cosmic dark.” Reflecting on the deeper meaning of the Pale Blue Dot, Sagan said, “Think of the rivers of blood spilled by all those generals and emperors so that, in glory and triumph, they could become the momentary masters of a fraction of a dot. Think of the endless cruelties visited by the inhabitants of one corner of this pixel on the scarcely distinguishable inhabitants of some other corner.”
Ask yourself, What’s the worst-case scenario? And how likely is that scenario, given what I know? Writing down your concerns and uncertainties—what you know and what you don’t know—undresses them. Once you lift up the curtain and turn the unknown unknowns into known unknowns, you defang them. After you see your fears with their masks off, you’ll find that the feeling of uncertainty is often far worse than what you fear. You’ll also realize that in all likelihood, the things that matter most to you will still be there, no matter what happens. And don’t forget the upside. In addition to
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Think about it: Where are the redundancies in your own life? Where’s the emergency brake or the spare tire in your company? How will you deal with the loss of a valuable team member, a critical distributor, or an important client? What will you do if your household loses a source of income? The system must be designed to continue operating even if a component fails.
Embracing the Far-Fetched Imagine a glass bottle with its base pointed toward a light. If you put half a dozen bees and flies into the bottle, which species would find its way out first? Most people assume the answer is bees. After all, bees are known for their intelligence. They can learn highly complex tasks—such as lifting or sliding a cap to access a sugar solution in a lab—and teach what they learned to other bees.23 But when it comes to finding their way out of the bottle, the bees’ intelligence gets in their way. The bees love the light. They’ll keep bumping up against the base of the
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Researchers divided expert chess players into two groups and gave them a chess problem to solve.9 The players were asked to achieve checkmate using the fewest possible moves. For the first group of players, the board contained two solutions: (1) a solution that was familiar to any skilled chess player and would achieve checkmate in five moves and (2) a less familiar, but better, solution that would produce a checkmate in three moves. Many experts in the first group couldn’t find the better solution. The researchers tracked the players’ eye movements and found that they spent much of their time
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For the second group of players in the study, the researchers changed the setup so that the familiar solution was no longer an available option. Instead, only the optimal solution would achieve checkmate. Without the familiar solution to distract them, the experts in this second group all found the best solution. In the end, the study confirmed a statement attributed to several world chess champions: “When you see a good move, don’t make it immediately. Look for a better one.” When the Einstellung effect gets in the way—when we can’t see the better move—we can change our definition of the
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“The first principle is that you must not fool yourself—and you are the easiest person to fool.”
In the end, if we don’t prove ourselves wrong, others will do it for us. If we pretend to have all the answers, our cover will eventually be blown. If we don’t recognize the flaws in our own thinking, those flaws will come to haunt us. As cognitive scientists Hugo Mercier and Dan Sperber point out, a mouse “bent on confirming its belief that there are no cats around” will end up as food for those cats.51 Our goal should be to find what’s right—not to be right.
David Foster Wallace tells the story of two young fish. The fish are swimming along, “and they happen to meet an older fish swimming the other way, who nods at them and says, ‘Morning, boys, how’s the water?’” The two young fish swim on, “and then eventually one of them looks over at the other and goes, ‘What the hell is water?’”57 Everything we observe in the world is through our own eyes. What may be obvious to others—we’re swimming in water—isn’t obvious to us. Others have that seemingly freakish ability to spot the mismatch in our units of measurement or our collective delusion about a
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“You think that because you understand ‘one’ that you must therefore understand ‘two’ because one and one make two. But you forget that you must also understand ‘and.’”
Consider Clever Hans the horse.48 Hans was the closest thing a horse could come to a rocket scientist. He became a worldwide sensation for his ability to perform basic math. Its owner, Wilhelm von Osten, would ask the audience for a math problem. Someone would shout out, “What is six plus four?” and Hans would tap his hoof ten times. His ability went beyond addition. He could subtract, multiply, and even divide. People suspected fraud, but independent investigators found no foul play. It was a young psychology student named Oskar Pfungst who figured out what was really going on. Hans could
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There are conferences, such as FailCon, dedicated to celebrating failure and FuckUp Nights, where thousands have gathered in more than eighty-five countries to toast their failures.
There are funerals for failed start-ups, complete with bagpipes, DJs, sponsorships by liquor companies, and slogans like “Putting the Fun in Funeral.”
Learning can also take the stigma out of failure. “The best thing for being sad,” the author T. H. White wrote, “is to learn something. That’s the only thing that never fails. You may grow old and trembling in your anatomies, you may lie awake at night listening to the disorder of your veins, you may miss your only love, you may see the world about you devastated by evil lunatics, or know your honour trampled in the sewers of baser minds. There is only one thing for it then—to learn. Learn why the world wags and what wags it.”
As Malcolm Forbes, the founder of Forbes magazine, put it, “Failure is success if we learn from it.”
“Failure hovers uncomfortably close to greatness,” wrote James Watson, the codiscoverer of DNA’s double-helix structure.
Consider another example from the pharma industry. In 1989, Pfizer scientists developed a new drug called sildenafil citrate. Researchers hoped the drug would expand blood vessels to treat angina and high blood pressure associated with heart disease. By the early 1990s, the drug appeared to be ineffective for its intended purpose. But the participants in the trials reported an interesting side effect—erections. It wasn’t long before researchers abandoned their initial hypothesis to pursue the astonishing alternative. And Viagra was born.49
Curiosity takes a failure, turns the volume of drama all the way down, and makes failure interesting.
It provides emotional distance, perspective, and an opportunity to view things through a different lens.
When we reward success and punish failure, employees will underreport failures, overreport successes, and reframe anything that falls in between in the best possible light. When we shoot the messengers, people stop delivering messages—particularly if they work for us.
I get it. It’s painful to fail, and airing your failures can compound the pain. But the opposite approach—denial and avoidance—makes things worse.
“Human beings,” social psychologist Daniel Gilbert explains, “are works in progress that mistakenly think they’re finished.”
Our default mode is regress—not progress. When left to their own devices, space agencies decline. Writers wither. Actors flare out. Internet millionaires collapse under the weight of their egos. Young and scrappy companies turn into the same acronym-driven, bloated bureaucracies they were seeking to displace. We return to black-and-white.