In Nouwen’s short journal entry we find a narrative of how he responded to the feelings of rejection. First, he reflected on what to do with these feelings. He was confused and hurt, but nevertheless honest about his emotions. He didn’t stuff them down. Second, he brought his emotions and pain to God, asking for help in what he knew he should do—that is, forgive and not be bitter—and worked to remind himself of what he knew to be true about his vocation and standing in the world. Third, he recognized his human weakness in overcoming the pain with forgiveness and asked God for help. Finally,
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