Think of your wife getting angry or behaving in a slightly different manner. It could be a sign that she needs help. However, you move one step behind and think you will come back later. But right now she needs you more. It’s because you are not able to take care of yourself that you move away. This is not support. We are not there for each other emotionally, though physically we are living in the same house. We are not there to heal each other because we have not healed ourselves.
