The trauma I developed because of the abuse I received from my mother made me unable to neurologically develop a healthy attachment style. Because of this, throughout the majority of my adult life, I experienced every argument, every break-up, every relocation of a friend, every time someone didn’t call when they said they would as life-altering abandonment, rejection, and loss. I was being re-traumatized in every one of those moments and relationships because of the way my early experiences with my mother had imprinted upon me and—unbeknownst to me—predetermined the way that I would be able
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