Manolo Alvarez

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We have discovered a feature of the types that occurs at the bottom of the average range. We call this feature the Leaden Rule, the opposite of the more famous Golden Rule. If the Golden Rule tells us, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you,” the Leaden Rule states, “Do unto others what you most fear having done unto you.” The Leaden Rule points out that each type has its own special way of aggressively undermining others to bolster its own ego. The false belief is that “If I put someone else down a notch, it will lift me up one.” Thus, each type begins to inflict its own Basic ...more
The Wisdom of the Enneagram
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