Putting our attention on what we want rather than what we don’t want is not only incredibly powerful from a manifesting and law of attraction standpoint, it’s also incredibly powerful when making requests of others in our lives.
I’m reminded of how it feels to be told what I’m doing wrong vs. how to do something better. I get in the receiving mode over defensive mode. That is how everyone is. To get through an issue with someone, start with a suggestion over a command or example of what’s going wrong. I get much further with less emotion with my kids and spouse when I remember to do this. It’s human nature to complain. Being mindful of your approach saves so much time and energy.
