The obsession with more, with needing to be and do more, distracts us from being and doing the things we’re already being and doing with all of ourselves. The mantle of disapproval we wear when we’re doing or being something that we think we should be doing or being more or better takes away from the very thing we’re doing or being to begin with. Obsessing about being and doing more has the opposite effect we think it will: It takes away from our actions and our presence instead of adding to them.
