I don’t blame my parents for my OCD or any of my other “issues.” My mom is probably reading this right now and bristling over the accusation, so I want to make sure that she hears me. In fact, if anything, I thank them for it. I would not be the wise, strong, funny, quirky, empathic human being I am today if not for the many experiences in my life that have shaped and challenged me to maintain my resilience.