Be in control, even if you plan to make it look like chaos. Read the room. Be shady but not bitchy. Don’t punch or kick downward at groups in society with less power or privilege than you. Tuck it away, if you want to. Stuff your trousers with a sock, if you want to. Wear a chest plate to give you pecs and abs or boobs, if you want to. Pad hips and bum, if you want to. Cinch your waist, if you want to. Shave or add hair, if you want to. Make none of the above adjustments if you don’t want to.
