Being noticed feels good. Think about a time when someone remembered your favorite color; referenced a joke you’d made earlier; followed up on something minor you mentioned the last time you saw them; or complimented you on a seemingly tiny detail that you put a ton of thought into. It’s thrilling, right? Being noticed can genuinely make someone’s day, foster warmth and positivity, and turn casual pals into close friends. Noticing isn’t about obsessively reading into every little
