That doesn’t mean every sexually indifferent woman is repressed. Patriarchal control is often responsible for women not enjoying sex. It is not always responsible. The truth of the gender inequality in sexual freedom, and the importance of teaching women to honor their sexual desires, has distorted into the belief that female sexual liberation only looks like one thing—and that’s the opposite of what women’s lives looked like before. Overcorrection doesn’t solve the problem. It only redistributes the shame and the stigma.