For Zee, sex goes from “vaguely amusing” to “deeply chore-like” after the first two weeks of a relationship. Sex isn’t repulsive, but it’s a hobby other people have that Zee doesn’t care for, like bowling. “If you have someone who loves to go bowling all the time, that’s great,” they say, “but I’m not the kind of person that wants to go bowling more than maybe once every couple of years, and I’m not going to buy the shoes for it.”
