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Dr. Harper
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March 11 - March 16, 2025
“Abusive people love to use spirituality and forgiveness to manipulate their victims into accepting more abuse.”
Five minutes ago, consent seemed like such a simple thing — yes or no. But what about a traumatized brain, where one part consents and another does not?
“How can I possibly be carrying pain that I don’t feel?” he asked. “Because it’s been split into another part of your body and mind,” I said.
I felt sort of… disconnected. More like an observer of the world, rather than a participant.
“I think we all have lessons to learn. Old energy and wounds to resolve. So we keep coming back until our work is done, and then we’re infinite and free — just like the stars.
“Maybe next time, I’ll come back with a little less pain in my heart.”
“I’m playing judge and jury, because I don’t trust that God will deliver justice,”
our bodies and minds don’t create a ‘detour’ unless we’ve experienced some pretty serious trauma. If we want to get back on the highway, we have to be ready to see the crash.”

