are attentive, even these will change moment to moment. At work, one self may come online with one coworker; then another self appears as a different coworker enters the room. If you shatter a glass in the break room, your irritation or embarrassment may bring another self forward, until you get an email that a meeting was suddenly canceled to the great relief of yet another self. Sometimes I like to think of the singular “you” as a flip-book. If you take a stack of paper and draw a picture that slightly changes on each page and then flip through the pages, the still images will appear as a
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