Let’s go back to what you want to change in your life. Most of us have three categories of desire: 1. Things you wanted to happen which have happened. (We often overlook these.) 2. Things you didn’t want to happen which have happened.
The best way to live is to experience each moment and then let it go. However, most of us don’t do that. We label our experiences and assemble them to create stories – about ourselves, other people and the world around us.