Today’s parents spend more time with their children than any previous generation. This is true even for those parents with full-time jobs. At first glance, all of this quality time may seem like a good thing, but I’m not so sure. A strong, flexible connection isn’t about constant togetherness. Think about the people you love most in the world other than your kids—your spouse, siblings, parents, or best friends. Do you want to spend every waking minute with them? Do you want them up in your face all the time, asking if you need help with something or if they can join your game? Unless you’re
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