“There’s a Chinese saying about this. What do you think is the most important quality to having a good connection with another person?” “That you get along with them?” “Well, of course. You have to have something in common. You can talk to them. You get along, that’s just a basic thing. An obvious thing. What is the next step? Even more important than that?” “I don’t know.” “You have to be able to reflect each other’s hearts.”
