It’s easier said than done, of course. I want to be considered attractive and I will spend a certain amount of time getting my grey hairs dyed and ensuring that my pubic hair isn’t overgrown. I like a manicure. Occasionally, I have a spray tan. But I think where my consciousness is beginning to shift is that now I do these things in order to feel good about myself, rather than to feel I’m winning at being like someone else.
