What if we reimagine dietary laws in the context of our flaky friends, busy partners, and frequently frustrating family? Imagine if we deepened our haphazard gatherings and dinners to become solid commitments, observing the rule of eating with the same group of friends every Thursday night. Or tried to expand our capacity for relationship by having lunch with our least favorite colleague once a month. In other words, though we don’t need to declare which foods we can or can’t eat, we should repurpose a model of committing to those we eat with.