‘Why didn’t I just do what I wanted? Why did I let him rule me? Why wasn’t I strong enough?’ were questions I heard repeatedly. She was so angry with herself for not having found the courage. Her children confirmed the hard life she had experienced and their hearts went out to her, as did mine. ‘Don’t you ever let anyone stop you doing what you want, Bronnie,’ she said. ‘Promise that to this dying woman, please.’ I promised, and went on to explain how I was fortunate to have an amazing mother who had taught me independence by example. ‘Look at me now,’ Grace continued. ‘Dying. Dying! How can
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