Dads, by contrast, can find “enoughness” by aspiring to a level of involvement best summarized as “more than what their own fathers did.” That can run the spectrum from simply learning to change a diaper to taking on the role of full-time stay-at-home parent. On average, it still looks like 35 percent of the labor, even if the dads themselves don’t want to admit it: 41 percent of fathers believe their childcare responsibilities were “shared equally.”
