“I continue to choose people who can’t commit” is not a miracle-minded perception. A more enlightened question might be, “How committable am I, really? How prepared am I in the deepest recesses of my being to give and receive love in an intimate, committed way?” Or, “How can I forgive those who could not go past a certain wall of fear when dealing with me? How can I forgive myself for the ways in which I contributed to or participated in their fear?”
