If you’re judging a brother, you’re wrong even if you’re right. There have been times when I have had a very hard time giving up my judgment of someone, mentally protesting, “But I’m right.” I felt as though giving up my judgment amounted to condoning their behavior. I felt, “Well, somebody’s got to uphold principle in this world. If we just forgive things all the time, then all standards of excellence will disintegrate!”
