Meeting somebody we like can definitely stir up strong emotions real quick. But a lot of times those emotions come because we want to be in love and to have a relationship so badly that we’ve just attached somebody to our dream. The emotions blind us so that we can’t even see the other person clearly. We don’t know who they really are, and we may not be acting like our real selves either. They may be right for us, or they may not. Feelings alone are not enough to help us discern.