I’ve had to ask myself time and again what my highest value for my family is: Do I want my child to “succeed” in the cultural-achievement oriented sense, or do I want her to succeed at loving her neighbor as herself? Which value is stronger?
I do not think homeschooling is incompatable with the value of loving our neighbors over societal success. Honestly checking our motives and then asking how our actions reflect our values would be a practical excersize of examination.