Surrender is a tricky concept to write about, especially for those of us who have felt powerless over our lives. Maybe a well-meaning friend or family member has even told you, Why don’t you just surrender it? Although there’s some wisdom in that sentiment, there is also potential danger. After all, part of what keeps many of us in a pattern of constantly hustling, becoming overwhelmed, and then finding ways to disconnect is the belief that this pattern is the only way to get through life. We think we must control everything. We have experienced environments so threatening that it’s laughable
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