Why Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts

by Harriet Lerner

Other times, however, nothing we say or do will change the unrepentant wrongdoer. In fact, the more serious the harm, the less likely it is for the wrongdoer to feel genuine remorse and make amends.

Sometimes, the failure of the other person to apologize when they should hits us harder than the deed they should apologize for.

Yes!!!!!