SOME PEOPLE HAVE VERY STRONG VIEWS ABOUT THE RIGHT WAY TO LOAD A DISHWASHER. Dishwasher loading may be a good area to decide: “This issue matters more to someone I love than it matters to me. Out of love, I’ll load the dishwasher according to that person’s method, even if I think it’s unnecessary, silly, illogical, or a waste of time.” Or if you just can’t bring yourself to adopt someone else’s crazy method, agree to consult the manual together to decide the “best” way to do it.
I just had a houseguest who talked about this. It's a big source of conflict for a lot of people!
